F*CK YOU!

How many times do I have to warn everyone that I absolutely despise gender stereotypes? Do not cross me. Most of all DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT f*cking call either of my boys a girl or gay because they have long hair. I understand an honest mistake. We get it all the time. The sweet old lady who although my sons are dressed like boys tell me my girls are beautiful. I can give the benefit of the doubt there, but when you bully my child like having long hair is something to be ashamed of you're going to see my mama bear claws come out. 

Its been a rough weekend. I've been very ill with what seems to be some sort of viral infection. The constant to and from the heat outside and the air conditioning has kept my youngest pretty congested. My youngest is also allergic to dairy and yesterday morning got a hold of his brother's milk. Usually he only gets diarreah if he has any dairy, but when we went out yesterday I noticed hives. I don't know if it was the heat outside or the milk. The thing is it kept coming and going and each time it was worse. 

He woke up at almost 2am last night and began scratching. About 10 mins later he was covered head to toe in hives. I rushed him to the ER because I didn't want it to be a severe reaction to whatever and something happen to him. We get checked in and put in a room to wait for the "doctor". A few minutes later a physicians assistant comes in. He says and I quote, "hey little man, you have long hair. You need a hair cut or everyone is going to call you a girl. Right mom am I wrong everyone calls him a girl. You need a boy haircut like mine so no one can call you a girl." My response was, "his hair is fine. He likes his hair." 

Ok you asshole first off, I was not there for a hair appointment. I was there because my son was having an allergic reaction. Second off, you have NO IDEA why my son's hair is long. It could be due to my religion to have long hair. What do you know? How is my sons long hair any of your f*cking concern? You're the type of person why society these days is damned. You're close minded. You're stuck in one way and one way only. It is not your job to talk to my 18 month old about his hair. Next time keep your comments to yourself asshole. ✌️